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Unf^ck your People-Pleasing - New Workshop!
Reader, My fragrant vanilla bean!
If you've been waiting with bated breath since my last email to hear more about the next workshop I'M SO SORRY PLEASE BREATHE NOW!
Whew. It's finally here, you can stop turning purple. I'm so excited to tell you more.
Drop the Good-Girl (or Good-Boy) Conditioning: An Easy Peasy Program for Fixing People-Pleasing For Good
If you’ve ever:
- Gone out with someone you didn’t want to just so you would be able to say that you gave it a fair shot before ultimately rejecting them.
- Resorted to carrying on a text convo with monosyllabic responses, not understanding why they don’t get the message and keep on bugging you.
- Ranted to your besties about your date woes but still put yourself through it again… and again.
Welcome to “How To Use Dating Apps To Cure People Pleasing.”
This isn’t your run-of-the-mill dating advice workshop. It’s a straight-shooting, deep-dive into breaking the cycle of saying “yes” when you really wanna say “heck no.”
Why You Gotta Check This Out:
I was the queen of people-pleasing – my boundaries were either non-existent or totally unyielding. And guess what? Dating felt like a minefield. Opening up an app felt like getting ready to do battle. Until I flipped the script while using dating apps as my dojo. Now, I’m here to pull back the curtain so you can do the damn thing too.
Here’s the Scoop:
- Real Skills: We’re rolling up our sleeves and getting our hands dirty with tools you’ll actually use.
- Find What Actually Lights You Up: This method will give you the tools you need to discover and uncover what really excites you, and arm you with the skills you need to find people who are a match.
- Newfound Mojo: Walk away with the skills to set boundaries you can live with and the confidence to back them up.
- From People-Pleasing to Treating People like Human Beings: Infuse your interactions with humanity and treat the person on the other end of the match ethically while still making sure that having your own back is top priority. We get to drop the people-pleasing while actually becoming better people.
- Zero Regrets: Say goodbye to dread-filled dates and hello to ones you’re actually psyched about.
The Need To Know:
- When: February 24th 1pm Eastern
- Where: Zoom
- Cost: 100 bucks (Don’t sweat it if that’s a stretch. Hit me up, and we’ll work something out.)
Who’s This For?
If you’ve ever wished for a way to stop the endless cycle of people-pleasing in your love life, it’s for you. Whether you’re a dating app newbie or a seasoned swiper, if you’re all about growing and glowing, you’re in the right place.
Note: while you very well might meet the love of your life, this workshop is NOT about finding you a better match. It’s about dismantling all the dynamics that keep you from being your most honest and authentic self in your romantic life. It’s about helping you move from fear to fulfillment. Do you need to be ready to go all-in on dating apps? Absolutely not. This is an experiment and an opportunity to practice essential tools that will undo the predilection for people-pleasing. You don’t have to date anyone or even WANT to date anyone.
Ready to Jump In?
Grab your spot by clicking here for the Stripe Checkout.
NOTE: This workshop stands alone but to get the full goddamn glow-up it pairs beautifully with the upcoming Pleasure Challenge and the March workshop: “Foundations of Pleasure.” You can ala carte that ish but there’s a tidy bundle that includes EVERYTHING here. (THIS IS AN INSANELY GOOD DEAL).
I love you. I believe in you. I can't wait to see you there.
xoxo
Amelia
Amelia Lord
In my newsletters you're going to hear a lot about pleasure as a revolutionary pathway towards radical living, where "pleasure" signals a state of deep contentment and rightness. Subscribe if you are looking for permission, inspiration and direction in connecting with yourself and creating a life defined by profound fulfillment, alignment, and authentic self-connection.
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